Phill Aye: Someone you should know
I wanted to take a moment to tell you about a friend of mine who recently passed away.
I met Phillip Aye for the first time when I was involved in the Civil Air Patrol. During the early 2000’s the Iowa wing was very involved in cadet programs. We had started hosting encampment activities at Camp Dodge which is the local National Guard facility. Phil and his wife Regina were active in these events. The two of them drove for hours with a car full of teenage cadets to participate in these week long programs. Spending this much time with Phil it was easy to see why the cadets idealized him.
Phil was larger than life. He was a warrior, a true sheep dog in that particular analogy of society. Phil served in the army with the 82nd airborne division. He loved serving his country and only separated from the service after he survived a significant parachute failure. Phil was a fire arms instructor, a tach officer, a great logistics officer, and a wonderful program deliverer for these events. Phil captivated the cadets with his stories of success and failure. He taught life lessons, and was a powerful mentor and father figure for many. Phil pushed himself very hard. He always wanted the best for everyone around him.
As our careers and activities in CAP evolved we all became active staff members of the National Blue Beret Activity conducted during the EAA’s Air Venture air show in Oshkosh Wisconsin. This program is unique in that its roots lay with the Iowa wing (Then North Central Region) Special Service Corps. At one time the “Beret’s” were an elite unit of Search and Rescue/Disaster Relief volunteers who tackled particularly challenging assignments. Phil’s background and demeanor proved to be the ideal mix for this program’s youth to look up to. Phil spent as much as three weeks a year setting up, and helping with the operation of this unique National Special Activity.
To be honest it had been a few years since I had spoken with Phil and Regina. Fortunately during this summer’s trip to Oshkosh I stopped by the Blue Beret Compound. I think we spent an hour chatting about old times. During that visit I learned that Phil had gotten sick, and had needed to go to the hospital for treatment. Unfortunately Phil’s recovery was short lived. During his drive home to Kansas Phil became so Ill that he stopped in St. Louis. Phil was admitted to the hospital, and aggressively treated. For weeks on end hundreds of friends monitored Phil’s status on the caring bridge website. Watching as Phil hung on and fought for life. On more than one occasion the situation looked bleak, but Phil’s drive and fight kept him alive.
Finally after almost two months in the hospital, more than 6 chest tubes, countless medications, and prayers Phil passed on. This loss is tragic, and a shock to everyone whose life he touched.
Phil will be buried this Friday November 16th
I wish that there was some way that I could help show just how many lives that this man touched, and the positive impact that he has had on so many.